Graduate Mentoring Handbook

Graduate Mentoring Handbook

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Introduction

Introduction

The Graduate School at the University of Massachusetts Amherst is committed to creating positive, healthy, and productive advising relationships between faculty advisors and their graduate students and postdoctoral scholars. To that end, we have prepared this guidebook for faculty mentors. We recognize that mentor/mentee relationships are highly individualistic, and even experienced mentors might encounter new challenges with every new mentee. Thus, we've tried to organize this manual so that mentors can dip in and find what they need, although new faculty might wish to read it more thoroughly from the beginning.

This handbook draws heavily on the following sources. The University of Michigan Rackham Graduate School's "How to Mentor Graduate Students: A Guide for Faculty" is widely viewed as an excellent model and has been adapted across the nation; this handbook uses some of its language by permission. Johnson's On Being a Mentor: A Guide for Higher Education Faculty is especially comprehensive. In addition, we drew upon Pfund et al. (2014) and the excellent mentor training program established by the National Research Mentoring Network, including material both from printed work and from their in-person program. Shore's The Graduate Advisor Handbook: A Student-Centered Approach is also a good read. Other references are listed throughout. For readability and brevity, we opted not to have in-text citations but to provide sources as a list.

Good mentoring starts with each graduate program, and we have tried to "UMass-ify" this where possible, providing examples of effective strategies from many different programs. This is a living document, so if you have comments, criticisms, or examples of best practices to share, please contact the Graduate School.

While this handbook is meant to aid individual faculty as they work with their mentees, at the end of each section we offer some suggestions for best practices at the level of the graduate program.

Notes on language

Although much of this manual is relevant to the mentorship of postdoctoral scholars and undergraduate researchers as well as graduate students, we refer to mentees as "students" for ease of language.

We use the pronouns "they" and "their" as both singular and plural, as the most inclusive choice.

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The Effects of Good Mentoring

The Effects of Good Mentoring

Mentors take an interest in developing another person's career and well-being, and helping them advance their academic and professional goals. It's a broader role than just being a supervisor or a boss, as the mentee's own professional growth is key. Mentoring is tailored to the individual, and depends on the mentee's experience, preparation, goals, identity, learning preferences and cultural background, among other factors.

One multifaceted definition of mentors includes those who:

Not all mentors are advisors—graduate students and postdocs should develop a network of mentors that could be other professors, people in related industries, family, friends, etc. Conversely, not all advisors are mentors—some advisors focus their relationship with their graduate students and postdocs solely around supervision of research rather than true mentorship.

Why be a mentor rather than just an advisor?

First, your mentees will benefit. Research shows that having an effective mentor correlates with

Second, you will benefit. Mentorship comprises a large part of faculty time, and many faculty members describe fostering the success of their mentees as one of the most rewarding aspects of their careers.

Most faculty members get little or no formal training as mentors, and develop their mentoring strategies by following examples (good or bad) set by others, and by trial and error. Many faculty members don't explicitly think about effective mentorship, but expect mentoring relationships to evolve naturally. Sometimes they do, but a mentoring relationship gone sour can take up a great deal of time and emotional energy, to everyone's detriment.

Given that mentoring relationships have been the subject of academic study, with a toolkit of best practices well supported by evidence, it makes sense to think carefully about how to establish and maintain your relationships with your graduate students, postdocs, and undergraduate researchers.

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Reflecting on Your Own Mentoring Practice

Reflecting on Your Own Mentoring Practice

Many faculty members find that their mentorship evolves with experience. Regardless of your career stage, it is useful to occasionally set aside time to reflect on your own mentoring practices and to make an intentional plan for your mentoring practice.

Here are some questions that may help guide your thinking about mentorship.

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Establishing Mutual Expectations With A New Mentee

Establishing Mutual Expectations With A New Mentee

Your new graduate student may have a very different understanding of the advisor/student relationship than you do. Perhaps their view is colored by their undergraduate research experience or previous graduate experience, by their friends' experiences, by their mentoring experiences in other countries, or by what they've read. They may enter the program viewing you as a boss, judge, advocate, collaborator, friend, parental figure, or teacher—or some combination. These expectations of you may also reflect your mentee's assumptions about mentors of your gender, sexuality, race/ethnicity, nationality, etc. In turn, your own expectations of your mentoring relationship have no doubt been shaped by your own experiences, both positive and negative, from your own time as a student, as an advisor to previous students, and by conversations with colleagues.

It is much easier to get on the same page at the start of the mentoring relationship than to recalibrate expectations when things go awry. The mentoring literature suggests having an organized, concrete discussion at the start of your mentoring relationship about the expectations you have for your new student, as well as the expectations your student should have of you. You may want to spread this discussion over the course of several meetings.

Here are some questions to stimulate your planning.

What does your graduate student need to know?

What can your student expect of you?

This initial conversation is also a good time to acknowledge explicitly that you too have responsibilities in the relationship and to make it clear how you will meet them.

Ideas for how to have this conversation

Remember that it is your responsibility to initiate this conversation. Don't expect your new student to know what to ask, or to feel comfortable in asking.

Depending on their personality, advisors differ on how they prefer to approach this conversation.

Recommended practices at the program level

Graduate programs should have a graduate student handbook with deadlines, policies, and evaluation metrics clearly specified. This should be updated annually. Problems that come to the attention of the Graduate School can often be traced back to the lack of a detailed, clear and updated handbook.

It should be clear how a student should best study for comprehensive exams, and how those exams are evaluated. Uncertainty about exams is enormously stressful for graduate students; we can mitigate some of that stress while still having a challenging exam. In programs with written exams that are given to a group of students, it is best practice for the answers to be graded by examiners that are blind to student identity. With oral exams, some programs have an independent moderator present, who is neither the student's advisor nor on the exam committee, who keeps time and ensures that the student is treated fairly. An experienced moderator can offer perspective during the discussion by the committee about how the questions asked and the student's performance compare to other exams.

All programs on campus should have an orientation session for incoming graduate students.

Many programs assign peer mentors to incoming graduate students that can help with everything from giving new students a realistic time estimate required by different courses or TAships, as well as getting settled, finding grocery stores, etc.

Additional resources

A useful list of resources and tips are provided in a Graduate Student Guide to Campus Resources. Direct your new student to it.

Information about off-campus housing can be found at the University of Massachusetts Amherst Off Campus Housing Website, and on-campus at through the Graduate School's resources.

The Graduate School provides many services, including guidance on policies and procedures, assistance with grant and fellowship applications (including the NSF Graduate Research Fellowship), as well as hundreds of events through the Office of Professional Development (see Professional Development chapter for details) and the Office of Inclusion and Engagement.

The Graduate Student Senate provides social engagement, leadership and advocacy opportunities.

The Graduate Employment Organization is the graduate student bargaining unit, and advocates for graduate students on wages, healthcare, and other benefits. A list of benefits is provided by the UAW/UMass Trust.

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Communication and Guidance During an Evolving Relationship

Communication and Guidance During an Evolving Relationship

"A hallmark of excellent mentorship is progressive change in the relationship." (from Johnson's On Being a Mentor)

As you move through the mentoring relationship with a student, the student should transition from being someone akin to an apprentice to being a colleague. As an advocate and guide for your student, consider these axes of development.

How you support your mentee's development changes as they progress through their program. Remember that no one person can have all the answers! Strong mentorship also means being aware of other resources and directing mentees to them when appropriate, and helping them to establish a team of mentors. You may know next to nothing about careers outside of academia, for example, but the Office of Professional Development offers many opportunities for your mentee to pick up relevant skills.

Early in your graduate student's program

Academic development. Professors are experts in their disciplines. It is easy for experts to forget what a beginning student might know. What assumptions are you making about a new student's background knowledge, both about the intellectual framework of the work as well as the mechanics involved in how to do the work?

Communication skills. Early-stage graduate students will be learning how to interact with people in their research group, other students in their program, faculty teaching their classes, and other faculty mentors. You can help by stressing the importance of creating a network of mentors, among both peers (at different stages) and faculty members, and helping students learn where to go with questions on different topics.

The Office of Professional Development and the Office of Inclusion and Engagement offer a variety of programs to help students develop networking skills, improve their writing and presentation skills, craft compelling funding applications, and build a mentoring network.

Leadership and professionalism. At this stage, students are most likely beginning to learn the norms of the discipline, and observe how others behave in leadership roles. You can help by explicitly discussing norms and pointing out leadership roles that they may be interested in assuming later on.

The middle period of your graduate student's program

Academic development. At this stage, the student has completed most of the initial requirements and is deep into their research. With the easing of externally imposed deadlines such as exams and course requirements, some students struggle to make steady progress. You can help your student define goals that are challenging but within reach.

Communication skills. At every stage, but especially at this period, you can intentionally help to demystify academia. This is especially appropriate for students who will be seeking an academic career, but it is helpful for any student to understand how a complex job works.

Leadership and professionalism. Recommend that your student complete an Individual Development Plan, or IDP, and update it regularly. First developed for STEM and later adapted to social sciences and the humanities, IDPs help students and postdocs set goals over the next 6-12 months that include research project goals, skill development goals, and career advancement goals based on self-assessment of their progress. For mentors, a good practice is to review with your mentee only the research project goals; sometimes students are reluctant to divulge professional aspirations and self- assessments that are addressed in other parts of the IDP. The IDP helps students see the big picture, focus their efforts, become empowered to actively direct their own planning, and become more productive. The Office of Professional Development offers workshops on completing an IDP.

Helping your student finish well

Academic development and communication: helping your students write. In mentoring training workshops, one of the most common frustrations we hear from advisors, regardless of discipline, is that many of their mentees encounter trouble with writing. In some disciplines, writing is parsed out over individual published manuscripts, which may be in more manageable chunks for the student. In others, the student writes one major piece of work, which can be especially daunting. In helping your students overcome writing issues, try the following:

Academic development and communication: helping your students communicate orally. Regardless of their career goals, all students will benefit from presenting their research to appreciative audiences.

Professional development. Realize that your student may be shifting their efforts to finding the next position, be it a postdoctoral position, an industry career, a teaching- intensive job, or some other path. Job searching takes time, but a student with a job to look forward to is a student that is motivated to finish their degree.

A note about relationship boundaries

Professors sometimes struggle with the appropriate tone of the relationship with their students: some prefer to be more formal, and some more friendly. Evidence suggests that some personal disclosure by the mentor can help in forming a productive mentoring relationship (e.g., sharing struggles with being a person of color in academia with a mentee of similar background). However, a mentor/mentee relationship cannot be a typical friendship because of the power dynamic. A student may feel obligated to participate in social activities with, or do favors for, a mentor that they would otherwise decline. In addition, socializing more with one student will likely be viewed as differential treatment by other students. Many UMass mentors also avoid befriending mentees on some social media platforms in order to separate professional and personal relationships.

At UMass Amherst, there is a bright line that you cannot cross: faculty are prohibited from entering into a sexual relationship with any student or postdoc for whom the faculty member has any responsibility for supervision, evaluation, grading, advising, employment, or other instructional or supervisory activity. If you find that a relationship is evolving into something romantic, you must immediately disclose the relationship to your supervisor and take steps to remove yourself from any of the above roles. Here is the policy in full.

Remember that as a faculty member, you always have the power in the relationship, which means you are the person responsible for maintaining appropriate boundaries.

If serious conflicts arise between you and your mentee

Some mentor/mentee relationships do not work as planned. Sometimes a student realizes that their research interests pull them in a different direction and part ways from a mentor with no ill will; in other cases, the relationship degrades and becomes painful. Researchers on mentorship label a relationship as dysfunctional if the primary needs of one or both partners are not being met, the long term costs for one or both partners outweigh the benefits, or one or both partners are suffering distress as a result of being in the relationship (from Johnson's On Being a Mentor, which offers a detailed analysis). Possible causes are nearly endless, including unrealistic expectations by either party, jealousy, taking undue credit for the other's ideas, or over-involvement in personal lives.

Steps to take include slowing down the process and not responding out of anger or anxiety to a problem; evaluating one's personal contributions to the problem; considering ethical and professional obligations to the mentee; or seeking consultation with a trusted colleague or the Ombuds Office. The Office of Workplace & Learning Development offers in-person and online training for employees on developing relevant skills. Develop a proactive and compassionate response to your mentee. Throughout, document your interactions.

Recommended practices at the program level

Successful graduate programs have the following characteristics:

Program characteristics shown to lead to poor mentoring relationships: 

Some program characteristics have been shown to be detrimental to student success (drawn from On Being a Mentor). These include:

Additional resources

The following book goes into extensive detail about how to mentor effectively, and has interesting case studies as well as concrete suggestions at both the individual and programmatic level.

Johnson, WB. 2016. On Being a Mentor: A Guide for Higher Education Faculty. Routledge, New York.

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Strategies for Fostering an Inclusive Community

Strategies for Fostering an Inclusive Community

Creating an inclusive, supportive community is an explicitly stated goal of UMass Amherst. The substantial benefits to all of us of creating a diverse and vibrant academy are well documented, and we won't belabor them here.

The graduate student population nationwide and at UMass Amherst is increasingly diverse. It's no longer relevant to consider students as either "traditional" or "non- traditional." If we include women in traditionally male-dominated fields, students from historically underrepresented groups, international students, LGBTQ+ students, students with disabilities, and students with children with other care-giving roles, these "non- traditional" students from decades past now comprise the majority of graduate students in the nation.

Recommended practices at the program level

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Resilience and Well-Being

Resilience and Well-Being

Recent studies nationwide show that mental health concerns, especially depression and anxiety, are significantly higher in graduate students than in their peers who are not in graduate school. In one study, graduate students were six times more likely to experience depression and anxiety than the general population.

These studies show that some of the major factors affecting graduate student mental health are financial concerns, poor work-life balance, negative interactions with their mentor, uncertain job prospects, and isolation and lack of social support.

How to be a supportive mentor

A common problem: the impostor syndrome

Students may experience impostor syndrome—the feeling that they are frauds that do not deserve their success and will soon be found out. Signs of impostor syndrome can be anxiety, self-doubt, unwillingness to speak up in meetings or classes, or comments about how they were "just lucky" to be admitted or that they are far less prepared than their peers. People suffering from the impostor syndrome may have trouble in taking credit for their accomplishments. Some strategies to help your student include:

Your responsibilities under Title IX at UMass Amherst

It may be that a student discloses to you that they are the victim of sexual harassment or sexual violence. We have both ethical and legal obligations to help our students and to take the training offered by the University.

Department chairs, GPDs, deans, and others are considered responsible employees for Title IX issues. If you hold one of these roles, you must report incidents of sexual harassment, sexual violence, dating violence, domestic violence, and other sexual misconduct that your mentee discloses. It is best practice to inform your mentee of your status as a responsible employee before the student discloses information to you, and to provide information about options for confidential reporting and counseling.

Faculty that do not hold these roles are not mandated to file a report if a student discloses an incident, but are encouraged to do so, as described in the faculty collective bargaining agreement (Appendix H). Faculty are required to provide students with information about campus resources, such as their next steps for immediate care, to help them review their options for reporting, and to aid them in making a report if they choose to do so.

In addition, to repeat what we said about "Relationship Boundaries": faculty are prohibited from entering into a sexual relationship with any student or postdoc for whom the faculty member has any responsibility for supervision, evaluation, grading, advising, employment, or other instructional or supervisory activity. If you find that a relationship is evolving into something romantic, you must immediately disclose the relationship to your supervisor and take steps to remove yourself from any of the above roles.

Recommended practices at the program level

Foster a culture where out-of-office activities are encouraged. Many programs on campus routinely host picnics, holiday parties, hiking or canoe trips, and other joint ventures where both faculty and students can be together in a non-academic setting. Remember that alcohol is not allowed on campus unless a catering license is acquired.

Be sure that all personnel are up to date on their required Title IX trainings.

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Helping Your Mentee Prepare for a Career

Helping Your Mentee Prepare for a Career

It is unlikely that your student will end up in a career exactly like yours. There are far more Ph.D.s than tenure-track jobs at research institutions, and it is likely that most of your students will not want to or will not be able to follow your career path. Faculty often worry about how to advise students about other career choices because they don’t have direct experience with these other career paths, and may do their mentees a disservice by avoiding the conversation altogether. Luckily, you don't have to become an expert yourself—UMass has excellent resources. Your role is to encourage your student to take advantage of them.

Open the door to a conversation about careers. Many graduate students hide their evolving career aspirations from their advisors because they think that their advisor will respond negatively—and indeed, some advisors, and some program cultures, do explicitly or implicitly favor students that intend to stay in academia. For example, some advisors might award first authorship on a paper not to the person who most merits it, but to the person who "needs" it most for their career. Thus, it may seem to your graduate student that dismissing a research career is tantamount to insulting you and your choices, or that you will think that you have thrown away your investment in them. They may suspect that you will think less of them or even withhold access to resources such as funds for conference travel or the time you devote to them. One way to forestall these worries is to look for opportunities to make positive comments about others who have gone into such careers and to explicitly ask your student about their career plans without passing judgment.

Balancing career preparation with conducting research. Some advisors are concerned that attending career-related events detract from time spent on research. However, participants report that their research progress is not slowed. Indeed, a student excited and optimistic about career opportunities becomes more motivated and directed.

Encourage your students to attend on-campus events created for career planning. The following opportunities are advertised directly to your students. However, your students are much more likely to attend if you encourage them.

Careers outside of academia

Across the nation, PhDs are increasingly choosing non-academic careers, and UMass students are eager for this information. In response, the Graduate School has an incredibly effective Office of Professional Development with nearly 300 offerings each year. Building upon the technical and academic expertise of the students they serve, OPD provides professional skills training in the areas of Career Preparation, Communication, Teaching, Grants & Fellowships, and Personal Development. Their programs can help your students develop self-awareness, learn new strategies (time management, negotiation), engage others (mentors, networks), and overcome challenges (imposter syndrome, perfectionism, conflict resolution). Their career-focused workshops can help your students explore career paths and navigate the job application process. You can see current list of events on the Graduate School website. 

Careers with a focus on teaching

If your student's goal is to become a faculty member, especially at a teaching-intensive institution, help them find authentic teaching experiences (rather than just, say, being a grader). Encourage your student to find TAships that offer increased independence and to seek opportunity for guest lectureships. For example, most Colleges at UMass Amherst now invite graduate students and postdocs to teach in the First-Year Seminar Series as the instructor of record. The seminars meet only once per week, so it is a reasonable commitment. Points of contact vary for each college; check with the office of your Dean.

You can also encourage your students to get familiar with the most current, evidence- based pedagogical practices. There are many resources on campus to help with this:

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In-Person Mentor Training at UMass Amherst

In-Person Mentor Training at UMass Amherst

For further discussion of the material presented in this handbook, and for a chance to discuss real-life scenarios with your colleagues, the Graduate School at UMass Amherst is pleased to offer in-person mentor training. We use the 8-hour long training program developed by the National Research Mentoring Network. This is a very well- crafted program that has been offered at numerous institutions and is recommended by many organizations, such as HHMI and the National Academies. Every component of the training has been tested and evaluated, and the training has been shown to be effective at improving the knowledge and confidence of mentors and the performance and satisfaction of the mentees.

The training focuses on a series of items for discussion—interesting case studies, sample contracts you might have with your students, etc. In a small group (ideally 8-12), participants discuss these materials with the help of a trained facilitator. Topics include aligning expectations with your mentee, maintaining effective communications, addressing equity and inclusion, fostering independence, and promoting professional development.

Training is offered periodically and advertised through email. You may also arrange training for your group. Please contact the Graduate School for further information.

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For Further Reading

For Further Reading

Augustine RA, ed. 2017. Empowering Diversity Leaders: Proceedings of the 2017 Alliances for Graduate Education and the Professoriate National Forum. Washington, D.C.: Council of Graduate Schools.

Hariharan, J. 2019. Uncovering the hidden curriculum. Science, 664:702.

Johnson, WB. 2016. On Being a Mentor: A Guide for Higher Education Faculty. Routledge, New York.

Lee SP, McGee R, Pfund C, Bradshaw J. 2015. “Mentoring up”: learning to manage your mentoring relationships In The Mentoring Continuum: From Graduate School through Tenure, ed. G Wright. Syracuse, NY: Syracuse University Press.

NASEM (National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine). 2018. Graduate STEM Education for the 21st Century. Washington, DC: The National Academies Press.

Pfund C, Branchaw J, Handelsman J. 2015. Entering Mentoring, 2nd edition. New York: W.H. Freeman & Company.

Pfund C, Pribbenow CM, Branchaw J, Lauffer SM, Handelsman J. 2006. The merits of training mentors. Science 311: 473-74

Rackham Graduate School, University of Michigan. 2018. How to Get the Mentoring You Want: A Guide for Graduate Students. 

Rackham Graduate School, University of Michigan. 2018. How to Mentor Graduate Students: A Guide for Faculty. 

Shore, B. 2014. The Graduate Advisor Handbook: A Student-Centered Approach. Chicago: University of Chicago Press.

Straus SE, Johnson MO, Marquez C, Feldman MD. 2013. Characteristics of successful and failed mentoring relationships. Academic Medicine 88: 82-89.

Stone, D., Patton, B., and Heen, S. Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. Penguin Books, 2010.

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Supporting Graduate Students in Times of Stress

Supporting Graduate Students in Times of Stress

Graduate school can be emotionally challenging under normal circumstances—for example, across the nation, the rate of depression among graduate students is about six times higher than their non-grad student peers. Now add the extraordinary stresses of this past year, with the pandemic and widespread racial injustice looming large. What can mentors and graduate programs do to help?

There are a wide range of issues that may be in play.

Consider the potential sources of added academic stress for your students:

Add to that the potential sources of non-academic stress:

ACTIONS FOR MENTORS TO TAKE

What can you do as a mentor?  While it is tempting to carry on with ‘business as usual’—to the extent that you can in the context of pandemic-related restrictions—it’s important to be proactive in your role as a mentor and a leader, and not to wait for problems to just bubble up. Here are some tips.

Be consistent, caring and clear in your communication. Establish regular meetings if you have not done so already, with each student and possibly with your entire group if that is your normal practice. Also establish the best approaches to maintaining contact between meetings. Make it clear that you are open to talking about non-research topics such as strategies for coping with stress.

Normalize the fact that these are stressful times. Acknowledge the burdens that your students face. Devote some time in your meetings to check in with each other. There are plenty of ways to open a conversation without putting someone on the spot.  You can ask, for example, “What are you all doing to get out of the house? Have you found a new hobby?  What do you do to signal to yourself that work time is over and now it is time for a break?”

Model work-life integration Talk about what you do for stress relief, for dealing with caregiving responsibilities, for taking restorative time away from work. Too often we present to our students a persona of constant busy-ness and hard work without discussing the need to recharge. This is a good time to take those moments to share strategies.

Help your student set reasonable goals, but be flexible and forgiving. Work with your student to help them set achievable goals—some structure can really help all of us make progress during a pandemic when time seems slippery! The Graduate School’s Office of Professional Development workshops emphasize SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. However, if a student fails to meet their goal, adding blame and shame won’t help. Re-establish the goal through a conversation and begin again. If a deadline really is firm, such as an abstract or a grant deadline, make it clear in advance, and work backwards from the deadline to create a workable plan. 

Be compassionate if people are having trouble with completing their work. Reach out for an individual conversation. Some students are struggling with issues that they may or may not want to share with you.

Understand that a student’s priorities may shift. Your fantastically productive student of 18 months ago might need to devote their time to parenting now. Students can feel that their mentors are upset with them if they must prioritize other aspects of their lives over work. This is an excellent time to openly discuss and normalize that priorities shift as conditions demand, particularly during a pandemic.

Do not impose your own worries on your students.  Perhaps you need to show progress on your grant or you are coming up for tenure, and the pandemic has slowed you and your group down. Be aware of adding to your student’s stress, and keep the focus on those achievable goals. Find other opportunities to work through your own concerns, including with colleagues who can support your professional development, and give you advice for managing these issues.

Celebrate successes.  If a student has successfully passed an exam, submitted a paper or an abstract, written a chapter, gotten attention for their work—celebrate it! Make it known to your group or grad program. Encourage the student to do something special to reward themselves if you can’t celebrate in person.

Be aware that students may view admitting to mental health issues as stigmatizing. It can be challenging to destigmatize reaching out for help. Some really fruitful conversations  have come about when the faculty openly discuss how mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, insomnia, and burnout, can plague faculty as well.

Recognize that you don’t need to be an expert in order to help.  Some mentors shy away from opening the door to discuss personal issues or to express their concern to a student because they feel unqualified to help—so instead of having a potentially uncomfortable conversation, they simply avoid it. However, as a mentor, authority figure, and the person with more power in this relationship, it’s important to proactively indicate that it is OK to be struggling and to talk about it. Below are resources that you can direct a student to, and people that you can consult yourself.

WHAT TO KEEP IN MIND WHILE MEETING WITH YOUR GRADUATE STUDENT

If you are meeting with a student who is under stress, it might be helpful to review this list:

WHO TO CONTACT WITH CONCERNS AND FOR ASSISTANCE

If a student is experiencing an emotional or psychological crisis, CCPH is available 24 hours per day, 7 days per week, 365 days a year for mental health emergencies.

For non-life threatening situations, please call 413-545-2337 and follow the prompts to reach the on-call clinician. Please note that CCPH does not have the resources to make an in-person visit.

If it is an immediate life-threatening situation, call UMPD (413-545-2121) or 911.  The police can do an in-person wellness check and make arrangements for transport, if necessary.

When navigating complex/ multiple concerns or assistance with resource connections:

For mental health/ clinical support / counseling / assessment services (many local to the Western MA area):

For financial assistance:

For food assistance:

Additional sources in the community for food assistance, help paying bills, and other free or reduced cost programs, including new programs for the COVID-19 pandemic (searchable by zip code):

 For conflict mediation:

For legal assistance / advice:

For technological needs:

For housing assistance:

Assistance for parents:

PROGRAM-LEVEL ACTIONS

It is important that the graduate program, as well as individual mentors, reinforce the messages of flexibility and concern for the students.

Acknowledgements and further reading:

The authors of this page drew inspiration from the Rackham Graduate School at the University of Michigan, and we gratefully acknowledge them.

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